I'm addicted to TV shows that showcase the flashy, lavish lifestyle and money of rich people. I'm looking for a man with money so I can live exactly that kind of life. Men without money are completely uninteresting to me.
Even at 14 I loved going on long shopping sprees. Coming home with bags full, and right then it was clear to me: looking for a man with money.
The qualities a man should have are clear to me:

  • Have money
  • A great career
  • Be attractive
  • Want to commit to a marriage / relationship
  • Love to travel
  • Want to buy a house
  • Enjoy giving gifts
  • Buy a vacation home in Florida

I'm determined in my life. Even in school I knew what I wanted. Education matters, because a woman can wrap precisely such men around her finger, so to speak.

Looking for a man with money: the infatuation fades, the money stays

I knew early on that every infatuation will fade one day. Then the question becomes: which man can I build a house with? Which man can I achieve something with? This isn't just about material things; these thoughts are also about security in life.
Anyone who still goes through the world starry-eyed hasn't understood! A lot has changed, and as a rule a woman today has to be a mother, hold down a job and take care of the household all at once. It's far too much, and that's why so many marriages fall apart.
Nobody says it out loud, but in the end our social life has changed dramatically. I looked at this issue early and told my best friend: "looking for a man with money".

Looking for a man with money
Looking for a man with money

Money doesn't smell

Why is money always seen so negatively? Why is it objectionable for a woman to state her expectations clearly? When I openly tell other people, "looking for a man with money", they turn up their noses!
It's honest and it's farsighted! Because at the end of the day, the world is about money. Everything revolves around it, because otherwise we can't exist. Of course I want a man I can have fun with. It's not that I don't look at certain key points that have to feel right for me.
Love is not an eternal flame! At some point a relationship is about more. Can I build something with this man? These are questions that come up, and anyone who isn't honest here simply can't be helped. A man also checks whether his partner is the right one for his life goals, doesn't he?